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  • 10 things that make me happy right now

    10 things that make me happy right now

    With the heavy holiday grief I’ve been blogging about recently, I thought it would be a nice change to do something fun and light hearted. The holidays are coming and you should totally buy yourself a little gift, or maybe these will be good for some family or friends. I LOVE STUFF and I am…

  • Fancy Holiday Grief

    Fancy Holiday Grief

    I am  a long-time griever. My mom was murdered in 2006 when I was 18 years old. I witnessed her being attacked. Over the last 16 years I have learned how to walk with my grief and become its friend, but it has many layers, and it’s a sneaky little bastard. That’s why I like…

  • Ojos Del Sol

    Ojos Del Sol

    I woke up at 3:17 am today ready to go. I haven’t been sleeping well this week. I remember reading once that for folks who are bipolar and on their period, it could throw you into a little hypomanic state. I’m not sure if that’s what’s happening, but if so it would make sense. 

  • 2 ways I deal with grief right now

    2 ways I deal with grief right now

    Over the last 16 years since my mom’s murder I’ve dealt with grief in many ways. First not at all, then kicking and screaming because I didn’t want to, then to a place of acceptance that I am in fact grieving, and will be for the rest of my life. It’s still not always easy,…